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May 28, 2008

herpes, a dirty disease?


Ulrika is 19, has two little children and is separated from her husband after he infected her with herpes – a venereal disease which she calls ‘a dirty disease’ because of the way it’s usually transmitted.

“My soon to be ex-husband became infected with herpes by having drunken unprotected sex with a prostitute while he was working offshore on a short contract job,” explains Ulrika. “He must have known he had picked up something, but he said nothing and just passed it on to me when he returned home.”

"I know, it's not the end of the world, things could be worse I suppose," says Ulrika, "but this herpes infection in my private parts makes me feel, well, dirty, and when you've only been with one guy, someone you grew up with and trusted with your life, you don't expect this sort of thing to happen to you."

"I've been scouring the internet for information ever since I discovered what the rash was," says Ulrika. "It's all bad news, there's no cure, it can get worse with shingles and when I read an article about actually dying from herpes I really freaked out."

"So I did my own research - see below,” says Ulrika. “If regional pollution is the main ‘cause’ of herpes death – the sort of living environment in which herpes is prevalent – then I'm at terrible risk where I live now, way out of town, right next to an industrial estate.”

“The point is, I suppose, that industrial estates are not just air pollution hazards,” explains Ulrika. “They’re also the sort of places with a lot of itinerant hard drinking male workers – which is a fair description of my soon to be ex-husband.“

"This is what I discovered".

The top 10 reciprocal causal factors relating to herpes death surprisingly rate environmental factors much higher than any other. In order of highest incidence, they are : 82.61% Land (sq km per 1000 people) 67.16% CFC emissions 66.45% Nitrogen Oxide 64.22% High Prices 63.02% Carbon Dioxide 61.56% Municipal Waste 61.35% Living Alone 57.71% Sulfur Dioxide 57.12% Teen Pregnancy and 55.69% Soft Drinks.

In total, statistics of 30 countries were examined for the incidence of death by herpes and 33 causal factors were taken into consideration (personal consumption, family and social issues, environmental issues and population).

The reciprocal causal factors were determined as follows. Firstly, the 15 countries with the highest incidence of death by herpes were examined to establish causes and their values. Secondly, the 15 countries with the highest incidences of these causal factors were examined to establish values in relation to herpes death. Finally, these two values were added together to obtain an average.

If causes alone were taken as established facts then something like Cannabis rating 62.43% would come into play, but as countries with the highest incidence of Cannabis consumption did not have a corresponding high incidence of herpes death its reciprocal causal factor was very low and as such Cannabis did not make the top 10.

In order of highest incidence, the top 15 countries representing 88.97% of the total herpes deaths are : Iceland Sweden Netherlands Finland Spain NZ US Japan Australia Denmark Austria Canada Germany S. Korea and Norway.

Compare that with the bottom 15 countries representing only 11.03% of total herpes deaths. These countries are : Hungary Czech R. Slovakia Mexico Poland Luxembourg UK Portugal Italy Greece Belgium France Switzerland Ireland Turkey

So, personal behavior is not a huge factor in herpes death but it definitely plays a part in the top 15 countries above which have a high proportion of Land (sq km per 1000 people), CFC emissions, Nitrogen Oxide emissions, Carbon Dioxide emissions, Municipal Waste and High Prices (Comparative Prices OECD).

Less important contributing factors include a high proportion of Sulfur Dioxide emissions, Living Alone, Teen Pregnancy and Soft Drinks consumption.

"Overall, sounds like death was caused more by regional pollution, vast tracts of heavily polluted land, than the herpes virus." says Ulrika, "but you can't put that on a death certificate can you?"

"If pollution (particularly CFC, Nitrogen Oxide and Carbon Dioxide emissions) compromise the immune system, then perhaps blaming the herpes virus for death is unfair. Also, if death was hastened by a whole bunch of Sex Nazis putting unnecessary stress on unfortunate people with the virus then without this interference they might otherwise have died of something else."

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    April 21, 2008

    menopausal mad cow


    Delores, 48, has become known in her workplace as a ‘mad cow’ following a blow-up with her estranged husband when he confronted her at work, and while this sort of incident could just as easily have happened to a younger woman there is no getting away from the fact that most incidents like this do involve older menopausal women.

    "Let's face it," says Delores, "young women are more likely to have good news than older women.”

    “Everyone loves to hear about a new romance, a new baby, a new house, a new car, a skiing trip, a new band or any number of the new things that young people are getting up to. Nobody wants to hear about an abusive husband, your father's death rattle, the trouble you’re having with children or the progress of your menopause treatment."

    “I believe women over 40 typically facing life crises such as divorce, the care and imminent death of parents, menopause and the empty nest,” says Delores, “and add the pressures of being a working mother to this equation and the result can be catastrophic.”

    “These life events can happen concurrently, and often do, sometimes triggering a serious illness to compound the misery.”

    "Ultimately," says Delores, "I’ll have to find another job. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to live down what happened here. And I’m not out of the woods yet by a long shot. Anything can and probably will happen.”

    “I won’t feel safe until that man is locked up for life," says Delores, “and then, maybe, I’ll get around to doing something about my menopausal symptoms.”


    "I've been separated now for five months," says Delores, "and I had to move into a separate apartment with my children when my husband became so abusive that I feared for our lives".

    "All of this time I've been carrying on as normally as I can at work," says Delores, "but it is very difficult for me to maintain my usual friendly and calm customer service when my life is falling apart at the seams."

    "I'm crying one minute then being rude the next and my co-workers are noticing my change in behavior as much as my customers are."

    "At first they were sympathetic." says Delores, "but after an incident at work when my husband came in and abused me - in front of everyone - I guess they reached their saturation level as far as sympathy and support is concerned."

    "I am mortified that the incident with my estranged husband made me and act like a mad old cow in front of my co-workers," sighs Delores. "Had I been a younger woman, around their ages, I am sure they would have reacted differently."

    "Let's face it, this sort of incident with an abusive partner could just as easily happen to a younger woman," says Delores, "but because I am 48 and the raving mad mad they saw at work was 58, I guess they just don't relate to the situation."

    "All they saw was an old man and his old lady having a fight at work."

    "Maybe the relationships they are in have not reached the stage where they cannot stand their partner," explains Delores. "Maybe they are not yet old enough to have experienced the pressure required for a blow up."

    "I'm doing my best to get my life back together," says Delores, "but it's very unpleasant at work with everyone avoiding me."

    "Yes, I think ageism has a lot to do with my situation at work," claims Delores. "My supervisor and my co-workers are all younger than myself, by at least ten years, and that matters."


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